Explaining Death to Children

Explaining Death to Children

Talking to children about death is never easy,

but it’s also one of the most important ways we can support them through loss.

At Hospicare, we understand how deeply the illness or death of a loved one can affect a child. Whether your child is facing the loss of a parent, grandparent, sibling, or close friend, our care team is here to walk alongside you, offering support, resources, and guidance every step of the way.

patients talking in hospice room

Why It’s Important to Talk Honestly

Children of all ages sense when something is wrong. They may overhear conversations, notice changes in routines, or feel the emotional stress of the adults around them. When children aren’t given clear and age-appropriate information, their imaginations often fill in the blanks—with confusion, guilt, or fear.

Talking openly and compassionately about death gives children:

  • A clearer understanding of what’s happening
  • Language to express their own feelings
  • Permission to grieve in their own way
  • Reassurance that they are safe and not to blame

How Hospicare Can Help

Our hospice team—including social workers, spiritual care providers, and bereavement counselors—can help you find the right words, choose the right moment, and offer emotional support for both you and your child.

We also provide grief resources specifically designed for children and teens, and we can recommend books or activities that help them explore their feelings in healthy, age-appropriate ways.

Books We Recommend

These books can be helpful tools for families navigating a serious illness or recent loss:
Hospicare has copies of these books available in our library for families to borrow.

For young children:

For older children and teens: